Instead of a bouquet of flowers, both my matron of honour and I chose to carry candlelit lanterns through the 'mist' to the front of the church. This along with my chosen music (from LOTR 3 where Arwen is going through the forest and sees a vision of Aragorn in the future) made for quite a different type of ceremony! Of course it only took two weeks after the wedding to start hearing the grumbling from the Aunt (who was only invited because we HAD to) about how it was such a 'strange' wedding. Well I say 'Sod off Old Cow, it's my wedding, and I liked it. So there!'